Sexual Healing: Good Advice From A Bad Girl

This is not your mother's sex advice column. I'll tell you upfront that I’m kinky and my answers to your questions won’t be your standard, vanilla responses. So who am I? Just a kinky girl with an appetite for sex, a good deal of experience, and the desire to help others enjoy sex the way I do. Email me your sex and relationship questions. I can't respond to all of them, but I will post the question along with my response. Feel free to comment or add your own experience.

June 11, 2005

Female Squirting Orgasm - Not Just A Cocktail

A little note about the

Pretty Damn Good & Concise Description of Female Ejaculation

link on the sidebar:

First, the caveat to all of this is that in the end, not every woman is going to be able to ejaculate, so if you or your girlfriend have given it your all, tried everything suggested in the how-to manuals you've read, and it still isn't working for you, please, don't beat yourselves up over this. Not every sexual act is possible or appealing to everybody and that's just how it works sometimes.

Second, on a more practical level, no need to lay a towel, unless you really do mind sleeping on a slutpuddle.

I would add to this paragraph:


Find the G-Spot
Begin by stroking or licking her clit to get her aroused. Once she begins to get turned on, insert two fingers, palm side up, into her vagina. About an inch to two inches inside the vaginal entrance, you should feel a round, roughened area on the front wall. This is the G-spot. Stroke against this area using firm pressure. It should enlarge and begin to feel more solid. Try touching or licking her clit as you manipulate the G-spot. Follow her responses and pace yourself to prolong her period of arousal; the more time she’s aroused, the more juice is building up in there.

that you need to pay a lot of attention to her signals. Don't trust that you will feel her G-Spot with your fingers. The G-Spot is as unique to each woman as a snowflake, comes in varying sizes, and is not in the same precise location. Explore slowly and carefully and let her tell you when you've found the right spot. Verbal clues are important here.

Communication is key.

I'll be saying that a lot.

oh, yes,
the Squirting Orgasm Cocktail Recipe
Ingredients
1/4 oz Jose Cuervo Especial Gold Tequila**
1/4 oz Everclear
1/4 oz Jagermeister
1/4 oz Bacardi 151 Proof Rum
Mixing Instruction
Pour all ingredients, in equal parts, into a shot glass. Stir and serve.

UM ... I'm not sure if "squirting" is what I'd be doing after a few of those.


** no one should drink Cuervo EVER

posted by Serrephim @ Saturday, June 11, 2005

2 Comments:

At 7/07/2005 4:37 PM, Blogger SMP said...

I find that the towel is necessary for me. I need it to be able to let go and enjoy! I don't squirt as often or as heavily without a towel.

 
At 7/07/2005 5:05 PM, Blogger Serrephim said...

By all means, you should do whatever is necessary to allow yourself to let go and enjoy it the most.

I simply meant to suggest that if the thought of needing to use the towel might stop you, because you fear the amount of liquid, in a lot of cases, the towel is no more necessary than it would be for a long hand or vibrator session involving copious amounts of lube.

But yes, use the towel if it helps. Or don't if that helps, too.

 

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